My ttc story....

We first decided to start trying for baby #2 when Anton was 2 months old in february 2009, we were both only 16 but we knew that this is what we both wanted. I've always wanted a close age gap between my children hence why we started trying so soon. When Anton was conceived we'd been together for a year and been sexually active for 11 months but had only used condoms twice and nothing else so we knew it could happen but we was so happy when we found out. Because it took 11 months with Anton we knew it could take around the same time or longer. In the first year we wasn't thinking too much into it just having fun. A year later we managed to conceive but on 3rd February I had a miscarriage at around 4-5 weeks, I didnt know I was pregnant until I was having a miscarriage. I had a period the month after so we started trying again and in May I decided to use opk's to help and charting my cm. I'd been doing that until November 2011 when I decided to stop and not think about it too much. In December just before Christmas we decided to stop trying for a year to focus on Anton and each other. Were still not using contraception in the hope that it will happen whilst we're not trying. It still hadn't happened but I don't feel as down each month like I used to when I was charting, if it hasn't happened by the end of this year then we will be going to the dr to have some tests to make sure were both still fertile ready for when we start ttc again next January.